Do you have a good marriage and want to make it better?

We say “I do” when we marry. 4 Rules for Marriage shows us how we can “do” this thing called marriage and “do” it well. And if you do get disillusioned you will know why and know what needs to be done to get back in love again.

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About 4 Rules for Marriage

What are the 4 rules?

Understand and be aware of the STAGES OF LOVE that you go through throughout your marriage.
A WORD and its definition. This simple word, when understood and responded to in your relationship can become the most important word in your love life.
A SAYING which is a call to action and resultant success.
RULES FOR FIGHTING. When your relationship gets a bit out of kilter these eight ‘rules for fighting’ allow you to express yourselves honestly and openly to enable you to get back in love with each other.

Where did these 4 rules come from?

They were developed as part of a marriage enrichment programme presented primarily as a live in weekend by an organization called World Wide Marriage Encounter. Whilst the Marriage Encounter weekend provided an opportunity for intense closeness and undistracted communication, these four rules for marriage were integrated into the weekend course.

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4 Rules for Marriage Presentation

How can we learn these rules?

4 Rules for Marriage is provided verbally in an hour-long verbal presentation. Just you two and a presenter. You will not be asked or expected to share your own relationship with the presenter. This is not a marriage clinic, group therapy or a substitute for counseling.

4 Rules for Marriage is not for profit. Currently, there is no charge for the consultation or presentation.

What style of presentation can we expect?

Our presentations are provided in a relaxed conversational manner. You will both be invited to Devonport to go through the presentation. You will not be asked to share about your relationship and there will be opportunity for questions. You will get examples of when and how to apply the rules to promote good communication, respect for each other and stay in love with each other through your life’s journey.

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Meet trevor

Your 4 Rules for Marriage Coach.

4 Rules for Marriage coach Trevor has been married to Christine for 53 years. They have seven children and 18 grandchildren.

The concepts which make up ‘ 4 Rules for Marriage’ were learned by Trevor and Christine in 1980 as content in a Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend that they attended. Subsequently Trevor and Christine for five years trained and assisted with the presentation of such marriage counter weekends including writing and presenting talks on all topics, then leading the provision of the same principles to engaged couples.

However it has been living these four rules for marriage for the past 43 years that has convinced them that these have easily been the best guidelines for their marriage in their lives.

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4 Rules for Marriage FAQ

Who can benefit from 4 Rules for Marriage?

Couples who have a good marriage will benefit the most.

Will 4 Rules for Marriage solve our problems?

Whilst your communication, understanding of your marriage and each other, and listening focus may be improved, serious issues such as infidelity, drug use, alcoholism, gambling and upbringing hang ups may need a trained councilor’s help.

Are Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekends still available?

In New Zealand, there hasn’t been a weekend held since pre Covid. Consideration is being given to a future date. Australia and other countries have weekends scheduled for 2024.

What is the cost to hear about 4 Rules for Marriage?

Currently there is no charge.

If 4 Rules for Marriage is so good why haven’t we heard about it before?

This concept of ‘4 Rules for Marriage’ being offered ‘in a nutshell’ presentation is new. Previously this information was part of a live in weekend experience which was provided and shared and spread through most of the main religions in the world. This included some 3.5 million couples and over 90 countries.

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What OUR customers say about 4 Rules for Marriage

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We are currently offering free consultations and presentations while we build up awareness and testimonials.

Keen to help us by listening to our presentation and giving it a review?
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If you have a good marriage and want to make it better, learn and use these ‘4 Rules for Marriage’.

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